FIM's MULTIMEDIA EXTEND SEASON'S LOVE

Indeed it was a great day with this kids today , as FIM's MULTIMEDIA the organizers of Face of Environs extend the touch a Life project by putting smiles on this faces as a pay back to the community .

In a speech by they  C. e . o  while with the kids today i see this as a promise and a dream come through for  the 2015 Face Of Environs First Edition Pet Project .
He further said i see greatness  in them after series of fun time and special presentation by they kids once the get the maximum support from all environs they found them self.Among them is future presidents,Governors , Managers, Directors,C.E.O's, Artists ,  and Great Leaders just to mention but few. So from the management of FIM's MULTIMEDIA the Organizers of Face Of  Environs we urge people in our environs to do more in actualizing the future and dreams of people like this.

   

How To Deal With A Difficult Person

How to deal with a difficult
person

The main thing is not to win the war, but to win the relationship.
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Life throws us all sorts of hooks from left, right and centre. Your ability to ride above them will
stand you out.

Most people will get on your nerves as you interact and relate with them. The main thing is not to win the war, but to win the relationship.

You must understand that most times, they are hurting and they only way they can express themselves, is to try to hurt others.

• 1.  Be calm:

Do not let your emotions get the
better part of you. Hold yourself in.

• 2.  Smile:

A soft smile will turn away every
wrath.

• 3. Listen:

If you listen attentively you will
understand their point of view.

• 4.  Be polite:

Your response will determine what
shape the incident will take. Always remember that the quiet person in every relationship wields more power.

• 5. Distraction technique:

Subtly take their attention away from the issue at hand.

Applying this 5 method help you win the relationship and the war it's forecasted from inception.

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11 Quick Questions Every Reasonable Guy Must Ask His Girlfriend

11 Quick Questions Every Guy
Must Ask His Girlfriend

One of the best thing you must do before you take your girlfriend to alta is to hold her attention
and ask her the following questions:
Read them below:

• 1.What Is Something You Have Tried, But Will Never Do Again?

This is an intriguing question that will get her thinking. This is also allows you to know how well or daring she really is. Perhaps the both of you have had the same experience and this will bring
you close together..

• 2.What Quirky Habit Do You Have?

Quirky habits are something that we all have.There is something that will get her to open up to you and let down her guard. This is a great way to make her feel just a little more comfortable with you.

• 3. Who Is Your Best Friend?

Best friends must like you if the relationship will ever have a chance of working out. By knowing who her best friend is, you will be able to make good first impression and be able to ask more questions about them. What are they like? How
did they meet?..

• 4. What Is One Think You Wish You Could Undo From Your Past?

Mistakes are very difficult to understand and admit. If she tells you one thing she could undo that she did in the past, this will bring the two of you closer together.

• 5. What’s Your Biggest Fear?

Fears are horrible, but they allows you to really get to know a person. Knowing her biggest fears means you can further protect her and know he better emotionally.

• 6. Would You Rather Have Love Or Money?

As a man, you better hope she says love because if she says money, she may be a gold digger.

• 7. What Is Your Most Embarrassing Moment?

Embarrassing moments are something we can look back or laugh. This is an awesome question
because it will make her laugh, smile or even cry.

• 8. What Would You Change About Yourself?

No one is fully content with themselves. Knowing her one insecurity allows you to be deeply
connected with her.

• 9. Where Is The One Place In The World You Feel Most Safe?

Feeling safe is something every girl wants. Her safe place is sacred and can be anything from the ocean to the house that she grew up in.

• 10. What’s Your Ultimate Goal In Life?

The end of question. This is something that allow you to know her aspirations but also enables you
to understand the person you’re with. If her ultimate goals is to own a Bentley or meet a famous celebrity, you might want to get out of dodge.

Long term relationships, require the both of you to share a common life goal and if you don’t, your relationship will probably fail….

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Ladies It's Time You Stop The Worries Of Cheating In Your Relationship With 10 Ways To Make Your Man Fall Totally In Love With Only You Again And Again

FIM's MULTIMEDIA RELATIONSHIP Magazine Tip's

Every one loves to feel wanted , loved and adored

Every man wants to feel like his lady’s

hero and it is boring when women don’t understand that.

Men who have strayed have done that

for different reasons with most being

because of the lack of attention.

Every one loves to feel wanted

including the men, loved and adored.

To make that happen and not let the

passion fizzle out, here lists of 10 ways men can be prevented from cheating

Be willing to initiate sex: Men equate

sex with desirability. Help your man to

feel desired by expressing your love in a physical way.

Be open to experimentation: It can be

easy to get comfortable and fear of the

unknown can stop you from being

open to different sexual experiences.

Allow your man to try new things with

you. If you won’t, there will be

someone else who will. I’m not saying

to engage in sexual activity you find

repulsive but allow yourself to

experience new things with the man

you love.

Don’t over-accomodate: Sometimes in

a relationship, a woman can become

too accommodating. Men get into

relationships with a very clear picture

of what a lifetime partner looks like

and this is often in stark contrast to

whom he may have dated casually.

Women work to become the person

their partner wants them to be and in

doing so, they lose themselves. One

day, their man realizes this is what he

asked for but he isn’t sure it’s what he

really wants. Maintain a healthy sense of self in your relationship.

Don’t become too controlling: Often

without realizing it, when we get into

relationships we attempt to control the

other person to do what works best for us. We engage in destructive

relationship habits such as

complaining, blaming, criticizing,

nagging, threatening, punishing and

bribing or rewarding to control.

Make sure he knows how much you

appreciate him: Sometimes when

women “get” the guy and get married,

they begin to get a false sense of

security. Remember, all relationships

are voluntary. A person can leave at

any time. With an over 50% divorce

rate in this present generation, we need to remember how important it is to

maintain a positive relationship, not

simply to acquire one.

Let him have time to himself: Some

men cheat because they begin to feel

hemmed in by the relationship.

Engaging in an affair can provide

them the sense of freedom they lose in

a relationship. Allow your man time

for himself without you. Don’t try to

monopolize all your guy’s time. Be

open to time apart for him to spend

with friends, pursue hobbies, etc. so

he does not feel he has no freedom.

Be aware of your emotions: Whether

or not we are aware of it, women are

masters at using their emotions to

communicate volumes without

speaking any words. We communicate

anger, rage, sadness and

disappointment that is received by our

partners. Instead of taking that as a

cue to do something different, some

men begin to look for another partner

who idolizes them the way you used

to. Don’t forget, your man wants to

know he lights you up not that he is

constantly disappointing you.

Prioritize your relationship: Often,

when a man cheats, you will find the

woman is also having an “affair”

that’s not sexual. It’s more socially

appropriate. This “affair” takes the

form of prioritizing something,

anything, over the relationship. This

could be a job, children, a sick

relative, a charity or anything that

puts her man lower on her totem pole

than the first position. Prioritize your

relationship over everything else. This

is the relationship you want to last for

all your life. Other things will fade

away and the relationship will still be

there if you tend to it carefully.

Learn his love language: If you are not

familiar with Dr. Gary Chapman’s The

Five Love Languages, please read it. It

has the potential to save more

marriages than marriage counseling

has. Learn your man’s love language

and speak it to him regularly. He will

know he is loved and remain true to

you.

Find his relationship pattern: I do not

know how to combat the biology

argument. Some men simply believe it

is hard wired into their genes to have

sexual relations with as many women

as they can. If this is your man, it

probably won’t matter what you do.

Try to recognize these men early on by

asking about their dating history. If

this is a pattern with your man, he

probably isn’t likely to change just

because you love him best. Your best

defense against this problem is to be

discriminating at the onset.

If you have read this article and

wondered, what about him? What does

he need to do? I wanted to write an

article for women. I encounter more

women in pain over their mate’s

infidelity than I do men. This is for

you.

If you are unhappy in your

relationship, don’t point your finger at

your partner. Look into the mirror

and decide what it is that’s causing the

unhappiness. If you want something

different from your man, ask for it. If

he gives you what you want, then

great! If he doesn’t then look inside

yourself for the solution.

Accept your man as he is and adjust

yourself to better be able to manage

your relationship. And if he is

violating one of your non-negotiables,

leaving might be your best option. 

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10 Weird Things Men Find Attractive In Ladies

FIM's MULTIMEDIA Relationship Magazine tips. Check our previous post on 25 Things  that makes Men Attractive to Women

You know many things most men find attractive in a woman but do you know that there are a few absolutely weird things almost
every man finds attractive in his woman?

We must admit we didn’t know most of these strange things until we started working on this post. We’ve found the information for this post
through some research and interviews with men. Enjoy learning about weird things men find attractive in women and don’t forget to share your thoughts after reading through,

Things Men Find Attractive in a Woman

1. Seeing her undone
While most men appreciate when women make the effort to look gorgeous through doing the makeup, dressing nice or fixing the hair, they
find it attractive if they see her a mess as well. A lot of guys tell that this helps them know a woman better. They get to see her behind the nice clothes and makeup up.

2. Her accent
Almost every woman is embarrassed by her accent. I didn’t like my accent but I’ve learned to embrace it over the few years. The great news is that men like a woman’s accent and find it really attractive. No matter if you have
an accent from the inner city or the south, it can be attractive to your man. I’m sure your accent is nice to listen to, so make sure you embrace it.

3. Seeing her afraid
Another weird thing men find attractive in a woman is fear. I thought it was terrible when I first read about it. A man wanted his woman to be afraid? This was the first question that had crossed my mind. However, then I realized
why men find fear attractive. The thing is, a man doesn’t want to wish deep fear on a woman but when he sees her a bit scared, it gives him the chance to comfort her and show
he is a real man.

4. Stretch marks
If you’ve had children by your man, you don’t have to worry about stretch marks. Although most women are not happy about stretch
marks, most men, including your partner, love them. Stretch marks remind your man of the fact you carried his child. Trust me, he really
appreciates it.

5. Camo
Some guys find camo attractive on girls because it means she could be his best hunting buddy. But it doesn’t mean that you should
wear camo every single day. Even though men find camo attractive on a woman, they still love cute dresses and nice skirt. Feminity is still important.

6. Glasses
Guys love to see girls in glasses and it’s true. My sweetheart has always told me that he
liked to see me in glasses and my sister’s partner feels the same way. If men find a woman that wears glasses attractive, why not throw away those contact lenses? I think this is wonderful news for girls who wear glasses every day.

7. Watching her apply makeup
Did you know your guy likes watching you apply your makeup? It amazes him how precisely you can do this. Guys also seem to be astonished that every girl has her own style with the makeup. So, ladies, feel free to check your makeup in front of your man.

8. Her towel head
One of the strangest things that most men find extremely attractive in his woman is when she washes her hair. They say that a wet hair look, especially if the hair is long, and the towel head is turn on for them. Well, it’s weird, but who knows maybe your sweetheart also loves your towel head.

9. When she works out
Men love it when a woman works out. That tired look and the sweaty feeling attract most men instantly. Perhaps you don’t find it attractive, but your man won’t want to miss
this look. So don’t be afraid to work out in front of your partner. The best option is to work out together.

10. In his shirt
The weird thing that men find attractive in a woman is when she’s dressed untidily in his favorite shirt. To most men, it’s a really designer look. From personal experience I can
say that my man loves when I wear hist shirts.

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The Importance Of Integrity In Building Relationship

The Importance of Integrity in Building Relationships. by FIM's MULTIMEDIA NEWSLETTER

It takes time and effort to build successful and positive relationships with other people. To build a successful relationship, we must be able to communicate and listen effectively. We must respect the ideas and views of other people.
Sometimes we must put the needs of others before our own needs. All these things and more go into building successful relationships, but perhaps no factor is more vital to strong, lasting relationships than integrity. Integrity is the bedrock foundation upon which all successful relationships are built.

Trust and respect are crucial factors in any relationship

The foundation of trust and respect is integrity. If that foundation of integrity is flawed or weak, it is impossible to build the necessary trust required to maintain successful, positive relationships.
This is true in business and personal relationships.

A businessperson seeking to climb the success ladder of an organization can overcome many
obstacles, including his/her own mistakes and miscalculations. But the individual who compromises their integrity and betrays other’s
trust will advance to the top of any organization.

Here are some concepts that will help you build stronger relationships by being a person of integrity:
Understanding Integrity is about Doing the Little Things Right: It is said that those who cannot be
trusted at all times, cannot truly be trusted at any time. Building trust with others requires time and patience, yet one betrayal, no matter how large or small, can destroy that trust forever. The theft of one dollar is still a theft. The person of integrity does not compromise his principles
because the stakes are small. A small lie is still a lie.

Make a Commitment to Honest and Reliability: Being a person of integrity requires a conscious
decision. Don’t wait until you are facing a crisis to decide how you will react. Make the decision now to be an honest and reliable person. Make
the decision that you do not have a price – you will not sell your integrity for money, fame, power,
or any anything else no matter what.
Put “Doing the Right Thing” Ahead of Your Personal Agenda/Goals: The person of integrity will make difficult decisions even if there is a personal cost attached to them. Be the Same Person in Private as You are in
Public: It is often said that the measure of a person’s character is what he/she does when no
one is watching. Character is who we are at all times.

Be Accountable for Your Actions and Behavior at All Times: Accept credit for your successes gracefully, but more importantly, accept responsibility for your mistakes and wrongdoings without being forced to do so.

Do Not Allow Circumstances to Alter Your Moral Compass: Develop an unchanging standard for moral decision-making, regardless of
circumstance. Integrity is not dependent or determined by circumstances. Right is right
regardless of the circumstance.

Treat All People With Respect Even if You Have Nothing to Gain: Do not treat those who cannot “do anything” for you less well than those who can help you achieve your goals.

Talk to People, Not About Them: If you have problems or issues with another person, discuss the issue up with them directly. Don’t gossip, and
don’t spread poison.

Do What You Must Do, Even When You Do Not Want to Do Them: We all face unpleasant tasks. Get them out of the way. Zig-Ziglar said “When
you do the things you have to do when you have to do them, the day will come when you can do the things you want to do when you want to do them.”

Performing unpleasant tasks without complaint shows the people around you that you are not just there for the good times.

Integrity is a Friend to All Your integrity is your most trusted friend. It keeps your priorities straight, and helps you stay on the right path. It allows you to accept unjust criticism without lashing out, and it allows you to learn from valid and grow from valid criticism. Integrity prevents you from succumbing to
convenience and taking shortcuts.
Integrity is also a friend to those with whom you maintain relationships. Your friends and
colleagues do not have to worry about your motives. They know who you are and what you stand for. They know they can trust you, even
when they are not present.
By being a person of integrity you lay a foundation which will allow you to build
successful relationships.
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9 Things You Should Never Say To Men

9 Things You Should Never Say to Men by  FIM's MULTIMEDIA NEWSLETTER

Words can ruin any relationship in a matter of minutes. You might have been together for years, but once you say one of the things women should never say to men, you may end up with heartbreak. Women tend to be highly sensitive, but men, albeit they are brave and patient, can get hurt too. Some men are like children and it’s hard to build a serious relationship with them. But
if you love such a man, you should avoid being clingy and needy, because they are actually clingy
and needy. Moreover, they don’t like when you say something that they don’t want to hear. Even if you will run away from a needy man, it’s
important that you avoid saying one of these things to your partner.

     1. You are a “mama’s boy”
Dating a “mama’s boy” is always hard, but if you love your man and want to spend your life with him, you should never say that he is a “mama’s boy.” Accept this fact and don’t try to change him. If your man is a “mama’s boy” in his 20s, he will be “mama’s boy” in his 40s too. Are you ready for it? If yes, then love and appreciate his mom more than your mom, and he will love you till the end of his life. Personally I avoid this type of men because any wrong word about him or his mother can ruin your relationship in a jiff. This is
a lesson I learned from my own experience.

      2. Tell me more about your ex
Although we know that we shouldn’t dwell on the past relationships, it’s tempting to know more details about your boyfriend’s ex. Avoid talks about exes, especially about intimate details. If you have a crush on a guy, but he doesn’t show
any signs he likes you, or he has a girlfriend, don’t ask him if he slept with her. You will never win his heart with this question, as well as you
will never improve your relationship when you know about your partner’s exes.

3. Look that girl looks so fabulous!
This sentence ruined many relationships. While it seems to be so simple and common, if you tell it
to your partner and he will say “yes” or “fantastic” or something like that, chances are you will get jealous and it may lead to a fight. You probably start asking questions like, “Is she
more beautiful than me?” or “Would you like to date her?” First, you may say that you’re just curious and you simply want to know his thought. But if he says “yes,” it will be the end of the world. If he says “no,” you will think that he’s trying to hide the truth from you, and it will be the end of the world as well. Ladies, it’s a sure sign of low self-esteem.

          4. You can’t have fun
If you’re dating an introvert, you should accept this fact and appreciate your partner’s traits. You
love parties and you know how to have lots of fun. Your partner, however, may not like parties,
but it doesn’t mean that he can’t have fun. Think twice before telling him, “you should learn how to relax and have fun because you are so shy and boring.” Once you tell him that, he will never want to see you again, no matter how much he loves
you. Introverts know how to relax and they are not shy. They know how to love and they are loyal, but they are highly sensitive. After all,
introverts make the best husbands!

         5. Am I beautiful?
Well, ladies, if you want to boost your confidence and self-esteem, leave your man alone. While men can help women boost confidence and feel better about themselves, you should never ask your partner “Am I beautiful?” If he really loves
you, he will tell you about it without your questions. If your man doesn’t compliment you, it doen’t mean that you are not beautiful. Probably,
he doesn’t love you at all.

6. You have a terrible fashion sense
If you don’t like how your man dresses, don’t tell him about it. You can slowly get rid of his old clothes and buy new ones, if you live together. If not, then try to go shopping together every time
he wants to buy a shirt or a jacket. If you tell him that he has a terrible fashion sense, he won’t break up with you, of course, but you can greatly damage his self-esteem.

7. When will you call me and I see you again?
When you have a first date with a man you like, it’s so tempting to ask him about your second date. However, don’t do it. He will think you are clingy, and most guys avoid clingy girls. He will let you know when you will see again and when
he will call you, so don’t ask him. It’s not a pride, but being clingy is not the best way out.

         8. It’s just a work
If your man spent a few days trying to accomplish an important project, but his boss said that it’s a total failure. Don’t tell him “it’s just a work.” Men appreciate their jobs, especially when they do something they are passionate about. You can tell something like, “Next time your boss will definitely notice your work,” or “Life is unfair, so maybe your boss had a bad day and your project is actually great but he didn’t notice it because of his bad mood,” “Or don’t give up. You will do it better next time. You are strong
and I believe in you.” Support your partner and he will cope with any problem faster.

9. You will never become successful
If your man has a sweet temper and he can’t take serious decisions without asking for your advice, it’s tempting to say, “You are a man, you
should be brave, confident and successful. You will never become successful, because you’re born unlucky.” Don’t say it no matter what. Not only will you ruin your relationship, you will make him believe that he’s really unlucky. Support him, motivate him, inspire him and help him, but never reproach him. Building a strong and healthy relationship is never easy. It’s important to understand your partner, support him, love him and help him become happier. He, in his turn, should do the same. If you are in an unhealthy relationship, it’s better to end it now. However, if you date a man and want to tie the knot with him, avoid saying any of these 9 things. Do you agree with this list? Do you think there are some other things women should never say to men?
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25 Things That Make A Man Attractive To Women

25 Things That Make a Man Attractive to Women
What do women find most attractive about men? Well, this list of 25 things will tell you everything you need to know about a woman’s likes and dislikes! Subscribe to FIM's Multimedia 24/7 NEWSLETTER or LIKE and ADD ANY OF OUR SOCIAL MEDIA CONTACT for updates.

Men are sexy beings, especially those model- football player types with chiseled bodies and flawless hair pushed back into a man-bun.
However, sometimes men like those only look good on the outside, and end up being rather crummy on the inside.

I could go on, but you get the point – sexy doesn’t always amount to a truly attractive man. 25 things that make a man attractive to women
A lot of what really makes a man attractive to women is what we discover after we get over the
perfectly cut jawlines, and broad shoulders. Sometimes, it may take a while to see the things that really matter. But no matter what, eventually these 25 things are what women find completely and utterly
attractive about men!

#1 A man that has purpose. Whether it is his devotion to a career, or how he volunteers his time after hours, when a man has purpose and
dedication, it is unbelievably attractive.

#2 A man that can fix things. It’s not that we don’t want to be self-reliant because most woman value independence, it’s just that when a
man can fix things it is incredibly sexy, and not to mention, economical.

#3 A man that cares about his family. A man that takes responsibility and cares for his family – whether it be elderly parents, a sibling, or a misguided relative – it shows maturity and love, and both of those are definitely attractive.

#4 A man’s hands. Maybe it’s because they can fix, create, and provide great pleasure.

#5 A man that has dreams , and follows them. Goals in life are crucial if a person wants to amount to something, and make a difference. There is nothing sexier than a man that knowswhat he wants, and pursues it with a fiery
passion.

#6 A man with class . Chivalry is not dead. A man that has class – not “swag” – is completely gorgeous. Open doors, wear pants at the waist,
and tell a woman how lovely she looks.

#7 A man that isn’t afraid to communicate how he truly feels. Women don’t really want the strong, silent type; it’s too damn difficult. What women find attractive is a man that can tell us exactly what he needs and wants, and how he is
feeling.

#8 A man that takes care of us in bed. A woman
finds it very pleasing when a man cares about her needs in bed. A real man doesn’t just pump, shoot and roll over, but instead works on making a woman very satisfied before calling it a night.

#9 A man with manners. Knowing how to address a senior, behave properly around a mother, and eat without resembling a troll is always appealing for a woman.

#10 A man that is confident, but not cocky . Confidence is so hot, but a man with a Kanye- sized ego is not. A man that knows he is good at
something, but doesn’t always feel the need to preach is what a woman really wants.

#11 A man that likes to laugh, and make us laugh. Laughing has been proven to make people live longer, happier lives. If a man can make a
woman laugh and laugh along with her, that is a double win.

#12 A man that can admit to his mistakes . I’m talking about small mistakes like getting us lost, and big mistakes like forgetting birthdays. If a man can admit to his wrongdoing and acknowledge that he is in fact, only human, that is very appealing.

#13 A man that is intelligent. A PhD isn’t necessary, but a man that can hold his own in whatever topic he is passionate about, is so attractive. Also, books are always s*xy.

#14 A man that isn’t afraid of commitment. Women are tired of hearing that the reason we can’t find an amazing relationship is because
men are afraid of commitment. That’s bull. A man that isn’t afraid of saying “yes, I will be yours, and I promise to stay yours until we agreed otherwise” is the most attractive.

#15 A man that can surprise us . This isn’t just pulling surprise birthday parties or coming home with flowers. This is being able to pull out amazing maneuvers that leave us feeling like you are capable of anything and everything.

#16 A man that can cook. Feeding a woman can be the gateway to her heart. If you can provide a woman with a delicious meal, she will
undoubtedly find you irresistible.

#17 A man that is an amazing dad . Being a parent takes an absurd amount of time and energy, and if a man is willing to change disgusting diapers, endure sleepless nights and
play dress up, that is totally alluring to a woman *who wants kids*.

#18 A man that can motivate us. Maintaining inspiration is often tough at times when life has got you feeling down and out. When a man can motivate you to continue to pursue your dreams, it is definitely an obvious plus.

#19 A man that isn’t afraid to grow. A person shouldn’t stop trying to improve themselves and the world they live in. Life is a continual learning process and a man that can celebrate that is more appealing than one that is set in his age-old
ways.

#20 A man that owns his nerdiness. Memorizing an entire series like Star Wars, or being obsessed with video games is completely fine, as long as a man can own it. And of course, as long as it doesn’t consume too much of his time and energy to an unhealthy point.

#21 A man that can cuddle. Being embraced by a protective, loving, real-life teddy bear is one of the most comforting things in the world. If a man can provide that, he is instantly attractive to a woman *keep in mind time and place, of course*.

#22 A man that doesn’t mind taking out the garbage. The little stuff seems small but truly counts. If a man can help out with minute tasks
such as dishes and share life’s load of responsibilities, they are more attractive than any super model.

#23 A man that we can have fun with. Life should be lived to the fullest, and that means having as much fun as possible. We are here for a good time, so if a man can have fun with us, we find them completely charming.

#24 A man that loves the environment. We are part of our environment, and a man that acknowledges this and cares for the world around him is almost too sexy to handle.

#25 A man that will love us the way we are. Women have to deal with enough self-doubt from the world around them, and the last thing they
need is a man telling them they should change X,Y or Z. A man that loves a woman for who she is, and not what she looks like, or what job she holds is a beautiful thing.
A sexy body isn’t the only thing, or the most important thing, that women find attractive about men. It’s really more about what’s going on in a man’s head and heart that makes a man irresistible *or not* to a woman.

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8 Kind Of Guys Women Love

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One man's meat is another man's poison.
Different strokes for different folks they say.
Here is a list of the different kind of guys
women love.
1. The Bad Boy: The fact that he is
unpredictable, a non-conformist is a turn on for
most women. This kind of guy, knows how to
give her a good time and doesn't care what the
world thinks of him. She knows, and she just
wants to enjoy it while it lasts.
2. The Romantic Guy: Women love to feel
appreciated, and the romantic guy can express
love in many passionate ways, even a guy might
become jealous. He is constantly bringing her
flowers and chocolate and lighting candles during
dinner. He calls her often to let her know he is
thinking about her and looks into her eyes and
tells her how he feels. Hmmm!
4 Women love power: They want to be seen as
the heartthrob of the guy “at the top.”
5. The creative guy: She is intrigued by the
artistic guy's creative mind and especially by the
way he incorporates her into his art.
6. The Intelligent guy: He stimulates her mind,
and body with intellectual discourse that leaves
her wanting to be around him. He is not boring.
He creates exciting topics and shows-off his
intellectual prowess in a gentle way. Always
ready to help.
7. The Church guy: This guy can be seen as
boring, but he seems like a safe haven from
heartbreak. God help you, that he turns out not
to be the “ogbologbo” mix.
8. The considerate Guy: Women love men who
are compassionate and considerate. It arouses
their motherly instinct to reciprocate with love.
They always want to be around the guy who
cares for them genuinely. Who wouldn’t?

10 Ways To Be The Perfect Girlfriend.

10 ways to be the Perfect Girlfriend
It takes two to tango, So does it take two
understanding people to make a relationship
work. Every man wants a woman that supports
him and who can hangout with him and his
friends. You don’t want to be the girlfriend that is
never given attention or confused on how to get
him crazy about you again. So here are some
important tips to consider if you want him
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<<<<<Tip's/Quote on making your duo go crazy about you >>>>>>>

#1. Show Him Love: This is definitely the first
step to owning that spot in his heart. Love him
like he’s the only guy in the world. Make him feel
special and happy. Let him know and feel that
he’s the king of your heart and no one can
replace him. He likes the fact that you’re crazy
about him so show him by giving him those
tender kisses, hugs, smooches, and say “I love
you” when there’s a chance.

#2. Don’t Be Too Possessive: Its cute to get
jealous at times and make him feel like you don’t
want to loose him to anyone but when you start
checking his messages and contact list, that can
be a big turn off. Your man doesn't want to feel
like he is being monitored or watched. Have some
trust to him and let him feel that he has got a
confident woman not an insecure girl.

#3. Just Be Yourself: Don’t try to be like a
supermodel or Beyonce because he likes her
music or has a few photos of her on his phone or
change the way you laugh or act because you
want to impress him. Men notice all that but its
not going to change a thing because he loves you
for who you are and that is the reason he asked
you out in the first place. Look good for him, stay
fresh and as beautiful as you were when you just
met . So be free to laugh loud and act silly
around him, he likes it.

#4. Care For Him: Let him know that you are
always going to be there for him through thick
and thin not just by saying it but  your actions
should correspond. Ask him about his family
especially the brother or sister that he is really
attached to. Talk about work and what business
venture he plans to dive into. Be the caring
girlfriend that wants to know if he has had
lunch,dinner, how healthy he is eating. You can
also put in some efforts by cooking for him or
preparing something special and bringing it to
him. The path to a man’s heart is through his
belly so cook well for him.

#5. Give Him Space: Yes ladies, give your man
some space! You don’t want him feeling all
chocked up around you. Let him have some time
to hangout with his friends and do some exciting
thing except he invites you, best time to hangout
with your friends too. Don’t be a clinch or the
girlfriend that is there 24/7. Let him miss you a
little and think about you then give you a call.

#6. Be Independent: Don’t be the girl who runs
to her man at every little problem, try to fix
things yourself. At the beginning of the
relationship he might find it cute that you see him
worthy enough to help out but if you keep calling
on him, he might begin to find it irritating so
don’t push it ladies. Pay your own bills if you
can, fix that broken tap or call a plumber. Don’t
stress him out or be that needy chick, he can
start to think twice about you.

#7. Never Compare Him To Your Ex’s: He might
not be hottest or the richest but he’s willing to
do everything in his power to please you and
make you happy. So acknowledge the fact that
he’s putting in effort and make him feel
appreciated. Don’t complain when that favour you
requested for isn’t forthcoming or make spiteful
comments about him not measuring up to your ex.
That can hurt his pride so instead just be
supportive and give him the energy he requires
emotionally.

#8. Communicate With Him: Let him know
what’s going on in your life and what your fears
are, he’s listening! A problem shared is half
solved so confide in him and he will do the same.
He’s not a magician and cannot read your mind
so don’t be shy to open up to him about work,
the girl you’re having problems with, your family.
Let him be your friend not just your lover. There
should always be something to talk about but
when there’s nothing, just cherish the silence and
cuddle.

#9. Stay Loyal: Chris Brown thinks we ain’t,
prove him wrong! BE LOYAL. Don’t be the chick
that flirts with her man’s friends or keeps secrets,
he might start to have reasons to doubt your
loyalty. Let him know he’s the only one and
you’re as committed as he is in the relationship.
Be honest and never leave anything unsaid
concerning your feelings or changes you’re
starting to see that you don’t like.

#10. Be Positive: Learn to see the best in him
and give compliments when he does something
right or when he’s looking his best. Try to
embrace him and let him know that you liked it
when he helped with the dishes or helped to
carry your bag. Don’t be negative or start silly
arguments, that’s a total turnoff! When you focus
on the negative, all you”ll see is negativity. Be the
backbone he needs and not the bone in his
throat.

Coming forth with that of the guys.

11Romatic Things Every Man Should Tell His Woman

11 romantic things every man
should tell his woman
TODAY!
Many people have lost their relationships simply because they failed to use words, forgetting that the heart, especially a woman’s heart, needs the word-romance too, be it written or spoken. Relationships fail everyday... in most cases; it first gets boring, then awkward before it crashes. The unfortunate thing is that many people cannot even place their hands on the real reason why the relationship failed, and they blamed it on each other. But Wha'anda is of the opinion that a lot of relationships fail because the power of words is replaced with silence and not-so-convincing action. Actions may actually speak louder than words, but the heart — especially a woman’s heart,needs the word-romance too, be it written or spoken. So, as a man, there are some things, some sweet, romantic words you can dish out to your lover in form of SMSs, just to remind her every now and then how important she is to you.

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Here are some few points to use on your lady

*1. I love you so much I can't even explain it.

*2. The only thing I don't want to change in my life is you because you are perfect the way you are.

*3. Baby, I sent an angel to guard you at night. It came back a minute later. I asked why and it answered "Sorry, angels don't guard other angels."

*4. I feel so happy just spending time with you.

*5. Pictures tell 1,000 words is what they say.But when I look at your pictures, I see only 3 words "I...LOVE...YOU."

*6. If you hold up 11 roses and look into a mirror, you'd be looking at 12 of the most beautiful things in the world.

*7. I miss you when I'm not with you. When I'm not with you all I do is think about you.. When I think about you I just want to be with
you. And when I'm with you, it's like all of my dreams have come true — you should send this as 4 separate SMSs.

*8. I can conquer the world with just one hand as long as you are holding the other.

*9. Every day, I try my best to be a better man just so I can be more worthy of your love.

*10. I always want to see you laugh because you look so cute when you laugh. And when you laugh, I am happy.

*11.  I'm lucky to have you. If you were agemstone for sale, I would never be able to
afford you.

So guys, activate this audio-textual romance
today.
Start with number 1 and work your way down with one day intervals and you will surely leave an impression that would count for you on days you err.
The good thing about SMSs is that she can read
it while you're not there to remind her of your love.

Try it, it doesn’t hurt.

Ladies only::12 Signs He Won't Marry You

Ladies Only
12 Signs He Will NEVER
Marry You
Is he really going to marry you as he says or is
it time to dump him and move on? Read this to
know.
You've been dating for quite some time now and
people have started popping the "when are you
getting married?" question at weddings and
family dos.
You are sure you have found Mr Right but he
seems to be on a different page altogether.
Is he really going to marry you as he says or is
it time to dump him and move on? Read this to
know.
1. Future denial: For him, planning for the future
equals deciding what to eat for dinner the
next night. If he evades talks of the future
and avoids all discussion, throw him out,
now!
2. His future talk doesn't include you: "In two
years I am going to buy a house which is
right next to where I work." Yep, you aren't
figuring in that plan.
3. Allergic to commitment: Do you often see
him making the "thank God I am safe"
reference when he meets his married friends?
Well, what can we say! Throw him out and
change the locks.
4. He is allergic to the M word: Okay, not
everyone loves marriage discussions but if he
avoids the M word like the plague, you need
a rethink.
5. He never owns up in public: If he downplays
the relationship in front of his friends and
family, often referring to you as his "good
friend", chances are he isn't going to stick
around for too long.
6. He can't make decisions: His decision to not
marry you might not even be personal.
Maybe he just can't make up his mind when
it comes to big decisions. Do you really want
to be with him?
7. M is for maybe: If he says he might marry
you if you give the relationship some more
time, move on.
8. He sleeps during romantic movies: Okay, this
might not sound all that important but trust
us, if he high fives you when the hero leaves
the bride-to-be and runs away, it might just
be an insight into his marriage psyche.
9. He has commitment issues: It doesn't get
more obvious than this. Move out, please.
0. There is always an excuse: Talk marriage and
he always comes up with "Only after I start
earning more," or "Only after I buy a house."
While his focus is good, it might also be an
excuse to keep your relationship in limbo.
1. He always gets out of family dinners: If you
always find him making excuses when he has
to attend any family event, he probably isn't
thinking of them as an important part of his
future.
2. Your dates aren't serious: If going out
consists of crashing over at his place or
renting a movie, chances are he is just
having a casual fling. While comfort does
tend to take over in a relationship, his lack of
effort could point to a bigger issue.