5 Women Habits That Rob Men of Manliness

5 Women’s Habits That Rob Men of Manliness from FIM's MULTIMEDIA NEWSLETTER

Every lady has a dream to build a strong and healthy relationship with a handsome and manly guy. Many of them don’t realize that dating a
self-sufficient and real man is not an easy thing, because it requires constant development, motion and mutual respect. Manliness is the key trait of a men’s nature.

These men are used to compete, fight, win and do manly things. Women have always been trying
to turn a lion into an obedient and harmless cat.

According to their point of view, a married man should wave goodbye to friends, hobbies and dedicate almost ALL their time to the family.
Unfortunately, ladies still believe that it will help them build a happy family union and avoid fights or the breach of faith. I think that neither kids nor beauty can prevent a manly husband from divorce, if you rob him of freedom, manliness and don’t give him breathe in a gulp of fresh air.

Everything depends on his temperament, but his patience isn’t made of rubber. If your love is pure
and infinite, he’ll swallow the pride from time to time in hope to save your relationship. As a result, your man will either become a spineless creature or bang on the table with his fist and erupt like a volcano, because obedience is not a man’s pair of shoes. I hope this article
will help you understand that women’s habits can kill men’s manliness and make all the members of your family miserable.

1. Taking total control over his life
Women are mega active and extremely curious creatures by nature. They usually do their best to
succeed in everything they’re interested in. When they get married, they shift their focus to their men’s lives. They analyze their lifestyles and try to take control of every step made by their significant others. As far as I know, men cannot imagine a happy married life without personal
space and trust. At least two or three hours a day they need to feel temporary freedom, digest thoughts and make right life decisions. Men
usually become angry when women stick their noses into their affairs.
It’s very difficult to get rid of destructive habits, but if you really love your guy and want him to be
the model of manly strength till the end of life, you should give in, because you’re a lovely woman, not a tyrant. You should always keep the
phrase “Mind Your Business” in mind. This technique will help you rid yourself of this annoying habit and improve the quality of your
family life.

2. Trying to become as strong and powerful as men
Though men and women are absolutely equal in their rights, modern women try to be dominated in many spheres of life. They refuse to follow old school rules and principles set by their ancestors,
because being a shy, womanly and tender lady isn’t prestigious anymore. The new priorities of
many women today are money, prestige, dominance and power. It seems this world turned upside down. Not long ago my best friend bought the same model of BMW like her husband already had. When I asked her why she decided to choose such a big and high-powered car, she told me that she was fond of strength and speed. She
didn’t agree that big cars were the toys of strong and manly guys. I’m sure that it’s bad when women lose their femininity and prefer to behave
like boys. There’s no need to break the fundamental laws of nature. Women are born to behave like ladies and men are born to be real
men.

3. Reforming his character
No matter how you slice it, it’s almost impossible to change the character of an adult male, but women still wholeheartedly believe that they’ll achieve a desirable result regardless of everything. But how can a woman reform the character of manly and self-sufficient man? One of the most effective and popular ways to do it is emotional blackmail. Even strong and sober-
minded men are ready to do everything for the sake of their princesses. If your habit of nagging
your husband is stronger than your love, then you’ll probably win the battle. You should remember that living according to only your rules
and traditions will gradually throw your significant other off balance and make him the most miserable person in the world.

4. Taming and restraining men
It’s hard to believe but women fall in love with manly, fearless and interesting men, but a bit later prefer to get married and cohabit with henpecked husbands. Why do women dream of clipping their husbands’ wings? Sure, the main
reason is the fear to lose their loved ones. Actually, it has a lot of pros and cons. Your life becomes easier, if you know that your passive and predictable significant other is sitting at home and playing with kids. You don’t have to worry about his extreme hobbies and interests.
But very soon, such a life will fill the heart of your lion with sorrow and despondency. I can state with assurance that a relationship where the rights and opportunities of partners are limited for one or another reason have the lowest chances for survival. Both spouses should cooperate and
communicate with their friends and family members, because marriage is not a prison, but a happy union.

5. Making steep demands
Statistics prove that nowadays every man dreams of gradually turning his woman into a queen, while every woman dreams of finding an already wise, strong, courageous and wealthy king. The desire to live in prosperity and feel
yourself completely comfortable and secured is a normal thing. Women should be careful of the words they say, because offensive phrases can
hurt men’s soul more than swords.
Psychologists advise women to avoid any dangerous words, such as loser or milksop, because they can break men’s confidence and
manliness into pieces. Try to reach your common goals together and never blame him for the failures and issues that sometimes take place in
your family life. Motivate your dear knight in shining armor – you’re the main source of inspiration to him.
Every successful and wise lady appreciates manliness in her man, because this trait is an essential part of their love and family happiness. Try to take control of your habits and realize that
the dream to tame your man can break a relationship, because dignity and freedom are the top priorities to men. Do you know any other habits that can steal men’s masculinity?

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The Importance Of Integrity In Building Relationship

The Importance of Integrity in Building Relationships. by FIM's MULTIMEDIA NEWSLETTER

It takes time and effort to build successful and positive relationships with other people. To build a successful relationship, we must be able to communicate and listen effectively. We must respect the ideas and views of other people.
Sometimes we must put the needs of others before our own needs. All these things and more go into building successful relationships, but perhaps no factor is more vital to strong, lasting relationships than integrity. Integrity is the bedrock foundation upon which all successful relationships are built.

Trust and respect are crucial factors in any relationship

The foundation of trust and respect is integrity. If that foundation of integrity is flawed or weak, it is impossible to build the necessary trust required to maintain successful, positive relationships.
This is true in business and personal relationships.

A businessperson seeking to climb the success ladder of an organization can overcome many
obstacles, including his/her own mistakes and miscalculations. But the individual who compromises their integrity and betrays other’s
trust will advance to the top of any organization.

Here are some concepts that will help you build stronger relationships by being a person of integrity:
Understanding Integrity is about Doing the Little Things Right: It is said that those who cannot be
trusted at all times, cannot truly be trusted at any time. Building trust with others requires time and patience, yet one betrayal, no matter how large or small, can destroy that trust forever. The theft of one dollar is still a theft. The person of integrity does not compromise his principles
because the stakes are small. A small lie is still a lie.

Make a Commitment to Honest and Reliability: Being a person of integrity requires a conscious
decision. Don’t wait until you are facing a crisis to decide how you will react. Make the decision now to be an honest and reliable person. Make
the decision that you do not have a price – you will not sell your integrity for money, fame, power,
or any anything else no matter what.
Put “Doing the Right Thing” Ahead of Your Personal Agenda/Goals: The person of integrity will make difficult decisions even if there is a personal cost attached to them. Be the Same Person in Private as You are in
Public: It is often said that the measure of a person’s character is what he/she does when no
one is watching. Character is who we are at all times.

Be Accountable for Your Actions and Behavior at All Times: Accept credit for your successes gracefully, but more importantly, accept responsibility for your mistakes and wrongdoings without being forced to do so.

Do Not Allow Circumstances to Alter Your Moral Compass: Develop an unchanging standard for moral decision-making, regardless of
circumstance. Integrity is not dependent or determined by circumstances. Right is right
regardless of the circumstance.

Treat All People With Respect Even if You Have Nothing to Gain: Do not treat those who cannot “do anything” for you less well than those who can help you achieve your goals.

Talk to People, Not About Them: If you have problems or issues with another person, discuss the issue up with them directly. Don’t gossip, and
don’t spread poison.

Do What You Must Do, Even When You Do Not Want to Do Them: We all face unpleasant tasks. Get them out of the way. Zig-Ziglar said “When
you do the things you have to do when you have to do them, the day will come when you can do the things you want to do when you want to do them.”

Performing unpleasant tasks without complaint shows the people around you that you are not just there for the good times.

Integrity is a Friend to All Your integrity is your most trusted friend. It keeps your priorities straight, and helps you stay on the right path. It allows you to accept unjust criticism without lashing out, and it allows you to learn from valid and grow from valid criticism. Integrity prevents you from succumbing to
convenience and taking shortcuts.
Integrity is also a friend to those with whom you maintain relationships. Your friends and
colleagues do not have to worry about your motives. They know who you are and what you stand for. They know they can trust you, even
when they are not present.
By being a person of integrity you lay a foundation which will allow you to build
successful relationships.
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9 Things You Should Never Say To Men

9 Things You Should Never Say to Men by  FIM's MULTIMEDIA NEWSLETTER

Words can ruin any relationship in a matter of minutes. You might have been together for years, but once you say one of the things women should never say to men, you may end up with heartbreak. Women tend to be highly sensitive, but men, albeit they are brave and patient, can get hurt too. Some men are like children and it’s hard to build a serious relationship with them. But
if you love such a man, you should avoid being clingy and needy, because they are actually clingy
and needy. Moreover, they don’t like when you say something that they don’t want to hear. Even if you will run away from a needy man, it’s
important that you avoid saying one of these things to your partner.

     1. You are a “mama’s boy”
Dating a “mama’s boy” is always hard, but if you love your man and want to spend your life with him, you should never say that he is a “mama’s boy.” Accept this fact and don’t try to change him. If your man is a “mama’s boy” in his 20s, he will be “mama’s boy” in his 40s too. Are you ready for it? If yes, then love and appreciate his mom more than your mom, and he will love you till the end of his life. Personally I avoid this type of men because any wrong word about him or his mother can ruin your relationship in a jiff. This is
a lesson I learned from my own experience.

      2. Tell me more about your ex
Although we know that we shouldn’t dwell on the past relationships, it’s tempting to know more details about your boyfriend’s ex. Avoid talks about exes, especially about intimate details. If you have a crush on a guy, but he doesn’t show
any signs he likes you, or he has a girlfriend, don’t ask him if he slept with her. You will never win his heart with this question, as well as you
will never improve your relationship when you know about your partner’s exes.

3. Look that girl looks so fabulous!
This sentence ruined many relationships. While it seems to be so simple and common, if you tell it
to your partner and he will say “yes” or “fantastic” or something like that, chances are you will get jealous and it may lead to a fight. You probably start asking questions like, “Is she
more beautiful than me?” or “Would you like to date her?” First, you may say that you’re just curious and you simply want to know his thought. But if he says “yes,” it will be the end of the world. If he says “no,” you will think that he’s trying to hide the truth from you, and it will be the end of the world as well. Ladies, it’s a sure sign of low self-esteem.

          4. You can’t have fun
If you’re dating an introvert, you should accept this fact and appreciate your partner’s traits. You
love parties and you know how to have lots of fun. Your partner, however, may not like parties,
but it doesn’t mean that he can’t have fun. Think twice before telling him, “you should learn how to relax and have fun because you are so shy and boring.” Once you tell him that, he will never want to see you again, no matter how much he loves
you. Introverts know how to relax and they are not shy. They know how to love and they are loyal, but they are highly sensitive. After all,
introverts make the best husbands!

         5. Am I beautiful?
Well, ladies, if you want to boost your confidence and self-esteem, leave your man alone. While men can help women boost confidence and feel better about themselves, you should never ask your partner “Am I beautiful?” If he really loves
you, he will tell you about it without your questions. If your man doesn’t compliment you, it doen’t mean that you are not beautiful. Probably,
he doesn’t love you at all.

6. You have a terrible fashion sense
If you don’t like how your man dresses, don’t tell him about it. You can slowly get rid of his old clothes and buy new ones, if you live together. If not, then try to go shopping together every time
he wants to buy a shirt or a jacket. If you tell him that he has a terrible fashion sense, he won’t break up with you, of course, but you can greatly damage his self-esteem.

7. When will you call me and I see you again?
When you have a first date with a man you like, it’s so tempting to ask him about your second date. However, don’t do it. He will think you are clingy, and most guys avoid clingy girls. He will let you know when you will see again and when
he will call you, so don’t ask him. It’s not a pride, but being clingy is not the best way out.

         8. It’s just a work
If your man spent a few days trying to accomplish an important project, but his boss said that it’s a total failure. Don’t tell him “it’s just a work.” Men appreciate their jobs, especially when they do something they are passionate about. You can tell something like, “Next time your boss will definitely notice your work,” or “Life is unfair, so maybe your boss had a bad day and your project is actually great but he didn’t notice it because of his bad mood,” “Or don’t give up. You will do it better next time. You are strong
and I believe in you.” Support your partner and he will cope with any problem faster.

9. You will never become successful
If your man has a sweet temper and he can’t take serious decisions without asking for your advice, it’s tempting to say, “You are a man, you
should be brave, confident and successful. You will never become successful, because you’re born unlucky.” Don’t say it no matter what. Not only will you ruin your relationship, you will make him believe that he’s really unlucky. Support him, motivate him, inspire him and help him, but never reproach him. Building a strong and healthy relationship is never easy. It’s important to understand your partner, support him, love him and help him become happier. He, in his turn, should do the same. If you are in an unhealthy relationship, it’s better to end it now. However, if you date a man and want to tie the knot with him, avoid saying any of these 9 things. Do you agree with this list? Do you think there are some other things women should never say to men?
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25 Things That Make A Man Attractive To Women

25 Things That Make a Man Attractive to Women
What do women find most attractive about men? Well, this list of 25 things will tell you everything you need to know about a woman’s likes and dislikes! Subscribe to FIM's Multimedia 24/7 NEWSLETTER or LIKE and ADD ANY OF OUR SOCIAL MEDIA CONTACT for updates.

Men are sexy beings, especially those model- football player types with chiseled bodies and flawless hair pushed back into a man-bun.
However, sometimes men like those only look good on the outside, and end up being rather crummy on the inside.

I could go on, but you get the point – sexy doesn’t always amount to a truly attractive man. 25 things that make a man attractive to women
A lot of what really makes a man attractive to women is what we discover after we get over the
perfectly cut jawlines, and broad shoulders. Sometimes, it may take a while to see the things that really matter. But no matter what, eventually these 25 things are what women find completely and utterly
attractive about men!

#1 A man that has purpose. Whether it is his devotion to a career, or how he volunteers his time after hours, when a man has purpose and
dedication, it is unbelievably attractive.

#2 A man that can fix things. It’s not that we don’t want to be self-reliant because most woman value independence, it’s just that when a
man can fix things it is incredibly sexy, and not to mention, economical.

#3 A man that cares about his family. A man that takes responsibility and cares for his family – whether it be elderly parents, a sibling, or a misguided relative – it shows maturity and love, and both of those are definitely attractive.

#4 A man’s hands. Maybe it’s because they can fix, create, and provide great pleasure.

#5 A man that has dreams , and follows them. Goals in life are crucial if a person wants to amount to something, and make a difference. There is nothing sexier than a man that knowswhat he wants, and pursues it with a fiery
passion.

#6 A man with class . Chivalry is not dead. A man that has class – not “swag” – is completely gorgeous. Open doors, wear pants at the waist,
and tell a woman how lovely she looks.

#7 A man that isn’t afraid to communicate how he truly feels. Women don’t really want the strong, silent type; it’s too damn difficult. What women find attractive is a man that can tell us exactly what he needs and wants, and how he is
feeling.

#8 A man that takes care of us in bed. A woman
finds it very pleasing when a man cares about her needs in bed. A real man doesn’t just pump, shoot and roll over, but instead works on making a woman very satisfied before calling it a night.

#9 A man with manners. Knowing how to address a senior, behave properly around a mother, and eat without resembling a troll is always appealing for a woman.

#10 A man that is confident, but not cocky . Confidence is so hot, but a man with a Kanye- sized ego is not. A man that knows he is good at
something, but doesn’t always feel the need to preach is what a woman really wants.

#11 A man that likes to laugh, and make us laugh. Laughing has been proven to make people live longer, happier lives. If a man can make a
woman laugh and laugh along with her, that is a double win.

#12 A man that can admit to his mistakes . I’m talking about small mistakes like getting us lost, and big mistakes like forgetting birthdays. If a man can admit to his wrongdoing and acknowledge that he is in fact, only human, that is very appealing.

#13 A man that is intelligent. A PhD isn’t necessary, but a man that can hold his own in whatever topic he is passionate about, is so attractive. Also, books are always s*xy.

#14 A man that isn’t afraid of commitment. Women are tired of hearing that the reason we can’t find an amazing relationship is because
men are afraid of commitment. That’s bull. A man that isn’t afraid of saying “yes, I will be yours, and I promise to stay yours until we agreed otherwise” is the most attractive.

#15 A man that can surprise us . This isn’t just pulling surprise birthday parties or coming home with flowers. This is being able to pull out amazing maneuvers that leave us feeling like you are capable of anything and everything.

#16 A man that can cook. Feeding a woman can be the gateway to her heart. If you can provide a woman with a delicious meal, she will
undoubtedly find you irresistible.

#17 A man that is an amazing dad . Being a parent takes an absurd amount of time and energy, and if a man is willing to change disgusting diapers, endure sleepless nights and
play dress up, that is totally alluring to a woman *who wants kids*.

#18 A man that can motivate us. Maintaining inspiration is often tough at times when life has got you feeling down and out. When a man can motivate you to continue to pursue your dreams, it is definitely an obvious plus.

#19 A man that isn’t afraid to grow. A person shouldn’t stop trying to improve themselves and the world they live in. Life is a continual learning process and a man that can celebrate that is more appealing than one that is set in his age-old
ways.

#20 A man that owns his nerdiness. Memorizing an entire series like Star Wars, or being obsessed with video games is completely fine, as long as a man can own it. And of course, as long as it doesn’t consume too much of his time and energy to an unhealthy point.

#21 A man that can cuddle. Being embraced by a protective, loving, real-life teddy bear is one of the most comforting things in the world. If a man can provide that, he is instantly attractive to a woman *keep in mind time and place, of course*.

#22 A man that doesn’t mind taking out the garbage. The little stuff seems small but truly counts. If a man can help out with minute tasks
such as dishes and share life’s load of responsibilities, they are more attractive than any super model.

#23 A man that we can have fun with. Life should be lived to the fullest, and that means having as much fun as possible. We are here for a good time, so if a man can have fun with us, we find them completely charming.

#24 A man that loves the environment. We are part of our environment, and a man that acknowledges this and cares for the world around him is almost too sexy to handle.

#25 A man that will love us the way we are. Women have to deal with enough self-doubt from the world around them, and the last thing they
need is a man telling them they should change X,Y or Z. A man that loves a woman for who she is, and not what she looks like, or what job she holds is a beautiful thing.
A sexy body isn’t the only thing, or the most important thing, that women find attractive about men. It’s really more about what’s going on in a man’s head and heart that makes a man irresistible *or not* to a woman.

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Ijeoma Susan Azuuike 24 Year Old Youth Corper Decleared Missing.

Susan Azubuike Declared Missing
The family of a 24-year old Youth Corper Ijeoma
Susan Azubuike, have declared her missing.

According to news circulating on social media, Azubuike was last seen on Sunday, May 31st, in Owo, Ondo State, when armed robbers attacked a bus that was transporting her and other passengers to Lagos. One of the passengers who was on the bus during the attack reportedly called

Azubuike’s family and gave the following account below:

"The GUO bus which was bringing them to Lagos from Abuja was attacked by armed robbers in Owo and they all had to run for safety, after the robbers had left, they all went back to the bus to continue their journey and it was then they discovered that Ijeoma was missing. The passenger said they got the mobile number from the Manifest which Ijeoma had filled her father’s details as her next of kin, since that Sunday till now Ijeoma has not been found. A female passenger who Ijeoma met at the park, told us as they ran for their safety into the bush

Ijeoma noticed her carrying her own bag on her neck and screamed “My bag!!” and quickly ran back to get her own bag. That was the last time she was seen."

Anyone with information on Azubuike’s where abouts is encouraged to call: 08066121270 | 08136364708 or contact the nearest police station.

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FOR MEN Check Out How To Boost Male Fertility.

Check out 4 foods that boost
male fertility

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Although infertility is often associated with just women, men suffer from it.

Causes of male infertility include poor nutrition, smoking, environmental chemicals and poor detoxification processes by the body.

In order to prevent/ reduce this, it is essential to eat a diet high in antioxidants, here are the four foods to eat in order to boost your fertility.

1. DARK CHOCOLATE- This is a rich source of the amino acid L-arginine which studies show can increase the volume of ejaculate and improve sperm count and motility. The darker the chocolate, the better, so, try the delicious bittersweet 85 per cent dark chocolate.

2. WATER- This a very simple, cheap way to boost your sperm as semen is water based and increasing liquid consumption can help increase the ejaculate and improve sperm production. Ensure it is only more water that you are consuming, as caffeine, a diuretic, and soft drinks may be linked with lowering sperm counts.

3. WALNUTS- These are rich in omega 3 fatty acids and according to a study by the Society for the Study of Reproduction eating 2.5 oz or around 75g of walnuts (about a handful) daily is linked with increased sperm vitality, motility and morphology (the sperms size and shape). They are also a great way to add flavour and crunch to salads or as a nutritious mid afternoon snack to help manage blood sugar levels.

4. TOMATOES- These are one of the best food sources of the antioxidant lycopene which has been found to significantly improve motility (the sperms ability to swim), activity and structure of sperm.