Ladies It's Time You Stop The Worries Of Cheating In Your Relationship With 10 Ways To Make Your Man Fall Totally In Love With Only You Again And Again

FIM's MULTIMEDIA RELATIONSHIP Magazine Tip's

Every one loves to feel wanted , loved and adored

Every man wants to feel like his lady’s

hero and it is boring when women don’t understand that.

Men who have strayed have done that

for different reasons with most being

because of the lack of attention.

Every one loves to feel wanted

including the men, loved and adored.

To make that happen and not let the

passion fizzle out, here lists of 10 ways men can be prevented from cheating

Be willing to initiate sex: Men equate

sex with desirability. Help your man to

feel desired by expressing your love in a physical way.

Be open to experimentation: It can be

easy to get comfortable and fear of the

unknown can stop you from being

open to different sexual experiences.

Allow your man to try new things with

you. If you won’t, there will be

someone else who will. I’m not saying

to engage in sexual activity you find

repulsive but allow yourself to

experience new things with the man

you love.

Don’t over-accomodate: Sometimes in

a relationship, a woman can become

too accommodating. Men get into

relationships with a very clear picture

of what a lifetime partner looks like

and this is often in stark contrast to

whom he may have dated casually.

Women work to become the person

their partner wants them to be and in

doing so, they lose themselves. One

day, their man realizes this is what he

asked for but he isn’t sure it’s what he

really wants. Maintain a healthy sense of self in your relationship.

Don’t become too controlling: Often

without realizing it, when we get into

relationships we attempt to control the

other person to do what works best for us. We engage in destructive

relationship habits such as

complaining, blaming, criticizing,

nagging, threatening, punishing and

bribing or rewarding to control.

Make sure he knows how much you

appreciate him: Sometimes when

women “get” the guy and get married,

they begin to get a false sense of

security. Remember, all relationships

are voluntary. A person can leave at

any time. With an over 50% divorce

rate in this present generation, we need to remember how important it is to

maintain a positive relationship, not

simply to acquire one.

Let him have time to himself: Some

men cheat because they begin to feel

hemmed in by the relationship.

Engaging in an affair can provide

them the sense of freedom they lose in

a relationship. Allow your man time

for himself without you. Don’t try to

monopolize all your guy’s time. Be

open to time apart for him to spend

with friends, pursue hobbies, etc. so

he does not feel he has no freedom.

Be aware of your emotions: Whether

or not we are aware of it, women are

masters at using their emotions to

communicate volumes without

speaking any words. We communicate

anger, rage, sadness and

disappointment that is received by our

partners. Instead of taking that as a

cue to do something different, some

men begin to look for another partner

who idolizes them the way you used

to. Don’t forget, your man wants to

know he lights you up not that he is

constantly disappointing you.

Prioritize your relationship: Often,

when a man cheats, you will find the

woman is also having an “affair”

that’s not sexual. It’s more socially

appropriate. This “affair” takes the

form of prioritizing something,

anything, over the relationship. This

could be a job, children, a sick

relative, a charity or anything that

puts her man lower on her totem pole

than the first position. Prioritize your

relationship over everything else. This

is the relationship you want to last for

all your life. Other things will fade

away and the relationship will still be

there if you tend to it carefully.

Learn his love language: If you are not

familiar with Dr. Gary Chapman’s The

Five Love Languages, please read it. It

has the potential to save more

marriages than marriage counseling

has. Learn your man’s love language

and speak it to him regularly. He will

know he is loved and remain true to

you.

Find his relationship pattern: I do not

know how to combat the biology

argument. Some men simply believe it

is hard wired into their genes to have

sexual relations with as many women

as they can. If this is your man, it

probably won’t matter what you do.

Try to recognize these men early on by

asking about their dating history. If

this is a pattern with your man, he

probably isn’t likely to change just

because you love him best. Your best

defense against this problem is to be

discriminating at the onset.

If you have read this article and

wondered, what about him? What does

he need to do? I wanted to write an

article for women. I encounter more

women in pain over their mate’s

infidelity than I do men. This is for

you.

If you are unhappy in your

relationship, don’t point your finger at

your partner. Look into the mirror

and decide what it is that’s causing the

unhappiness. If you want something

different from your man, ask for it. If

he gives you what you want, then

great! If he doesn’t then look inside

yourself for the solution.

Accept your man as he is and adjust

yourself to better be able to manage

your relationship. And if he is

violating one of your non-negotiables,

leaving might be your best option. 

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