Saturday 11 April 2015

10 Ways To Be The Perfect Girlfriend.

10 ways to be the Perfect Girlfriend
It takes two to tango, So does it take two
understanding people to make a relationship
work. Every man wants a woman that supports
him and who can hangout with him and his
friends. You don’t want to be the girlfriend that is
never given attention or confused on how to get
him crazy about you again. So here are some
important tips to consider if you want him
running into your arms, every single time. Subscribe  to FIM's Multimedia for our Relationship Tips Newsletter updates on C00331228
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#1. Show Him Love: This is definitely the first
step to owning that spot in his heart. Love him
like he’s the only guy in the world. Make him feel
special and happy. Let him know and feel that
he’s the king of your heart and no one can
replace him. He likes the fact that you’re crazy
about him so show him by giving him those
tender kisses, hugs, smooches, and say “I love
you” when there’s a chance.

#2. Don’t Be Too Possessive: Its cute to get
jealous at times and make him feel like you don’t
want to loose him to anyone but when you start
checking his messages and contact list, that can
be a big turn off. Your man doesn't want to feel
like he is being monitored or watched. Have some
trust to him and let him feel that he has got a
confident woman not an insecure girl.

#3. Just Be Yourself: Don’t try to be like a
supermodel or Beyonce because he likes her
music or has a few photos of her on his phone or
change the way you laugh or act because you
want to impress him. Men notice all that but its
not going to change a thing because he loves you
for who you are and that is the reason he asked
you out in the first place. Look good for him, stay
fresh and as beautiful as you were when you just
met . So be free to laugh loud and act silly
around him, he likes it.

#4. Care For Him: Let him know that you are
always going to be there for him through thick
and thin not just by saying it but  your actions
should correspond. Ask him about his family
especially the brother or sister that he is really
attached to. Talk about work and what business
venture he plans to dive into. Be the caring
girlfriend that wants to know if he has had
lunch,dinner, how healthy he is eating. You can
also put in some efforts by cooking for him or
preparing something special and bringing it to
him. The path to a man’s heart is through his
belly so cook well for him.

#5. Give Him Space: Yes ladies, give your man
some space! You don’t want him feeling all
chocked up around you. Let him have some time
to hangout with his friends and do some exciting
thing except he invites you, best time to hangout
with your friends too. Don’t be a clinch or the
girlfriend that is there 24/7. Let him miss you a
little and think about you then give you a call.

#6. Be Independent: Don’t be the girl who runs
to her man at every little problem, try to fix
things yourself. At the beginning of the
relationship he might find it cute that you see him
worthy enough to help out but if you keep calling
on him, he might begin to find it irritating so
don’t push it ladies. Pay your own bills if you
can, fix that broken tap or call a plumber. Don’t
stress him out or be that needy chick, he can
start to think twice about you.

#7. Never Compare Him To Your Ex’s: He might
not be hottest or the richest but he’s willing to
do everything in his power to please you and
make you happy. So acknowledge the fact that
he’s putting in effort and make him feel
appreciated. Don’t complain when that favour you
requested for isn’t forthcoming or make spiteful
comments about him not measuring up to your ex.
That can hurt his pride so instead just be
supportive and give him the energy he requires
emotionally.

#8. Communicate With Him: Let him know
what’s going on in your life and what your fears
are, he’s listening! A problem shared is half
solved so confide in him and he will do the same.
He’s not a magician and cannot read your mind
so don’t be shy to open up to him about work,
the girl you’re having problems with, your family.
Let him be your friend not just your lover. There
should always be something to talk about but
when there’s nothing, just cherish the silence and
cuddle.

#9. Stay Loyal: Chris Brown thinks we ain’t,
prove him wrong! BE LOYAL. Don’t be the chick
that flirts with her man’s friends or keeps secrets,
he might start to have reasons to doubt your
loyalty. Let him know he’s the only one and
you’re as committed as he is in the relationship.
Be honest and never leave anything unsaid
concerning your feelings or changes you’re
starting to see that you don’t like.

#10. Be Positive: Learn to see the best in him
and give compliments when he does something
right or when he’s looking his best. Try to
embrace him and let him know that you liked it
when he helped with the dishes or helped to
carry your bag. Don’t be negative or start silly
arguments, that’s a total turnoff! When you focus
on the negative, all you”ll see is negativity. Be the
backbone he needs and not the bone in his
throat.

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